The Dash

By Linda Ellis

​I read of a man who stood to speak at the funeral of a friend. He referred to the dates on the tombstone from the beginning…to the end.

He noted that first came the date of birth and spoke the following date with tears, but he said what mattered most of all was the dash between those years.

For that dash represents all the time that they spent alive on earth. And now only those who loved them know what that little line is worth.

For it matters not, how much we own, the cars… the house… the cash. What matters is how we live and love and how we spend our dash.

So, think about this long and hard. Are there things you’d like to change? For you never know how much time is left that can still be rearranged.

If we could just slow down enough to consider what’s true and real and always try to understand ​the way other people feel.

And be less quick to anger and show appreciation more and love the people in our lives like we’ve never loved before.

If we treat each other with respect and more often wear a smile, remembering that this special dash might only last a little while.

​So, when your eulogy is being read, with your life’s actions to rehash… would you be proud of the things they say about how you spent YOUR dash?

​Copyright 1996 Linda Ellis

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Courtesy Gracie Ann Matisyn

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Collection Steve Myers

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6 thoughts on “The Dash

  1. Thanks so much for sharing this Pierre. After a quick search on findagrave.com, I discovered the cemetery is in the same town I live in, less than 3 miles away. Using the visual clues in the background, I was able to find the gravesite in just a few minutes. It was a very exciting morning!

    • I had second thoughts about not posting this picture on Our Ancestors.
      First I told Steve I was only going to post it on my extended family tree on Ancestry.
      Then something told me I had to post it as well as this one…

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